Husband's Habit Ruining Our Marriage?

i can tell that you still love him that makes it hard and i suppose he wont go see a marriage councilor and i don't suppose u and him go to church or are know a priest or minister you can talk to and this is the kind of thing you just cant talk to a friend about then you are backed into the corner so now u need to think with your head not from the heart tell him how you feel and you are ready to leave him unless he will go with you to a good marriage councilor and you have to follow through with it