Am i spoiled?

i am almost 14 years old and my mom and dad said i could have 5,000 budget for my 14th birthday party is that being spoiled. I know i am rich but haw can i make it to not being spoiled rotten. Please help. All of my friend keep on saying i have too nice cloths and my house is to big but whatever idk. Is is bad to be this spoiled cause id tink it is