Guys r complicated. help?

So ive been with this guy, danny for a couple weeks now. Like we aint dating but we hang out all the time and what not. When we first met, he told me that he wanted to date me but he wanted to get to know me first. We had and we went out to movies and out to eat and everything. Then he thought that i texted his ex gf and got pissed at me but then a couple days later, he asked me to come over cuz he wanted to talk. so i did and i ended up going upstairs into his room where i always slept when i stayed there and i laid down. A couple minutes later he came up there and started kissing me and asking me to come downstairs and watch a movie with him so i did and a little into the movie, we started having and then after the movie, we went to bed. Well the next day we woke up around 4pm cuz we ddnt go to bed till 5am and then at like 5 he said that he was going to pick up this hot chick and take her for a ride on his bike and then after that he was going to go pick up some ashley chick and bring her back to the house and then go pick up another girl and bring her back bcuz we were having a party there. He brought the girls back and when he wasnt by them. i asked them both if they wanted to get with him and they both said no and they had bfs. I said ok and dropped it. He spent most of the night trying to get with one of the ashleys and acted like he was pissed at me all night. At one point, he was downstairs and i was upstairs so i went and laid down in his bed and his best friend mike came up there and we started talking and then he kissed me and then we went downstairs and laid on the couch cuz we were gonna go to sleep and a couple times he tried to put his hand down my pants but i wldnt let him. After a little while he settled for just kissing me and then danny came in and saw us kissing and just walked out after he gave me a weird look. The next day, danny texted me and said that i was supposed to stop texting mike and i asked mike why i was supposed to stop texting him and he said that he nvr said that i should stop and that danny wanted us to stop. Well i had a talk with danny about other things like y we wldnt date and he said that he loved everything about me and my personality and how much fun we always had together but he said that if i was hotter then we could have a future together. So im confused on how to be hotter and what all of you think about this situation.